The idea of seeking validation from people has been criticized as unconventional; addressing the issue, media personality, Shade Ladipo took to her Instagram story to expatiate more.
According to Ladipo, when one seeks validation from others, self-worth, peace, and other important aspects of life become dependent on people’s opinions.
She wrote: If your validation must come from others, so too will your self-worth. If your peace resides in someone else, so too will your suffering. You get to decide what matters to you and what it means to live well and on purpose!
Shade Ladipo opens up on being a runs girl in school
KFN recalls that Shade Ladipo opened up on how she was tempted to be a runs (call) girl in school over her parents inability to afford the luxury life other girls had at that time.
According to Shade who is an alumnus of the University of Lagos, she just couldn’t bring herself to the point of sleeping with older men for money, despite the fact that her friend were doing it to sponsor their lifestyle.
Shade made this touching revelation while recounting how she managed to fund her first trip ever to Cotonou.
She also advised ladies to “Stop giving up their dignity and life just for fleeting things”.
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